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Your sex life doesn’t necessarily have to be bad for you to want to improve it: maybe it just lacks that certain zing it used to have. Or maybe your sex is fine -- you’d just like to see if it can be even better. Whatever the case might be, there are definitely ways to elevate your sex. Methods for improving sex aren’t difficult, but they can be habit-forming, so be warned! Take A Break -- One of the simplest methods for improving sex is to have less sex. If you and your partner have ever been separated for a time, you know how exciting that first night back together can be. Why not create that excitement on a semi-regular basis? If you have sex say once a week, go two weeks without sex, maybe even two-and-a-half weeks (three weeks may be pushing things). Try sleeping in separate rooms during your intimacy hiatus if possible: this can make it easier not to cheat! In any event, once every two or three months or so, make sex off limits for a couple of weeks at a time. Fire burns hottest when it has space to breathe! Document The Fun -- Ever tried filming your intimate moments? Maybe you should. Filming intimate encounters gives each partner a different perspective, because they’re aware of being observed (even though it’s just a camera doing the observing). A new perspective on intimacy can really liven up an encounter; and you can watch the fun together at some later date, and relive all the excitement! Show Some Discipline -- There’s something about adding just the slightest bit of strain to an intimate encounter: it lends intensity to the moment. Think about including a belt in your lovemaking, and use the belt to strap your partner’s back or rear -- not with painful force, but with just enough intensity so that you partner knows it’s there. Try adding a bit of naughty talk while you’re at it. Things could heat up very quickly! Add A Supplement -- Years ago, aphrodisiacs were essentially just legend: now they’re as real as rain. There are prescription aphrodisiacs, there are non-prescription aphrodisiacs, there are aphrodisiacs that increase orgasm, there are aphrodisiacs that increase stamina, there are aphrodisiacs that you swallow, there are aphrodisiacs that you apply, and on and on. Maybe an aphrodisiac could add some spark to your intimate moments. Exercise -- Exercise for better sex? Yep. Exercise improves circulation, which is a critical part of sexual performance and satisfaction. Exercise also gives you more energy, and increased energy can come in handy during certain intimate moments!
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